7 Empowering Phrases that Children Need To Hear From You

As teachers, caregivers, and parents, we all want the best for children. We want to protect them, guide them, and set them up for success. But sometimes, we get caught up in the idea that we have to be perfect with all the answers and solutions. We may even get overly excited about giving our great advice, helping them avoid mistakes, or controlling them based on our own fears and emotions.

This can lead to unnecessary stress and pressure and despite good intentions, can result in children feeling less than - powerless - and frustrated.

Sometimes we forget that the most important thing our children need from us is love and support while they grow through life's many lessons.

Here are seven empowering words children need to hear from you. And spoiler - none of them require you to be an expert or perfect ----just another human, but one with superhuman love for kiddos and their development.

1. "I messed up"

Admitting our mistakes can be hard, but it's an important part of modeling vulnerability and honesty for our children. It also shows them that mistakes are a normal part of life, and that we can learn from them and grow.

2. "You've got this"

Encouragement is key when our children are facing challenges. Let them know that you believe in them and their abilities, and that you're there to support them along the way.

3. "We will figure it out together"

Life can be unpredictable, and sometimes we don't have all the answers. But we can work together with our children to find solutions and navigate challenges. This also shows them the value of collaboration and teamwork.

4. "I'm here - I got you"

Reassurance and support are crucial for children to feel safe and secure. Let them know that you're there for them, no matter what.

5. "I adore you"

Sometimes, our children just need to hear that they are loved and valued. Simple words of affirmation and affection can go a long way in boosting their self-esteem and sense of worth.

6. "I trust you"

As our children grow and develop, it's important to give them more autonomy and responsibility. Letting them know that you trust them can be empowering and build their confidence.

7. "What do you think?"

Listening to our children's thoughts and opinions can help them feel heard and respected. It also encourages critical thinking and communication skills.

Remember, it doesn't have to be hard or complicated. Focus on building a loving and supportive relationship with your child, and don't be afraid to show your own vulnerability and humanity. And when in doubt - just think about what you need when you are struggling.

We are all craving increased connection - increased acceptance - and encouragement, right?

Or is it just me?

I'm betting not -- I know we need it and our kiddos do too. We aren't so different you know.

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